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Take the Time
March 12, 2014|Satin Pelfrey
I receive a text from a friend saying she’s thinking of me, praying for me & hopes all is going well. I get a beautiful card in the mail encouraging me & appreciating my friendship. I listen to a message on Voxerfrom a friend who’s rejoicing in our answered prayers & offering a special prayer up for me.
Each of these scenarios have one thing in common: someone took the time to show love & encouragement. In our oh-so-busy lives, time is very limited, yet we all still long to be part of a community, a family, a greater purpose; all of which takes time. Yet if we don’t MAKE the time, we never TAKE the timefor others or for ourselves. How much life will we let slip through our hands in the name of, “not having time”? How many regrets will we hold for the time we can’t get back; the memories we missed with those we love?
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Being on the receiving end of love & encouragement over the years, has been instrumental in getting me through some of the most difficult & painful times in my life. There were times I wasn’t ready to talk about it, but receiving a reminder that someone cared meant the world to me. There were times where advice & words of wisdom were needed & given, while there were other times that silence was golden & the prayers spoken in the distance were the glue that held me together.
**“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up,
just as in fact you are doing.”**1 Thessalonians 5:11
Encouragement, regardless of the form, is necessary, in all of our lives. Whether we’re having a good day or a bad day, knowing that our trusted circle of family & friends are surrounding us with love, encouragement & prayers, is vital to our emotional, spiritual & physical health.
**“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”**
We need each other. Contrary to what the speed of the world around us may speak, we were made to encourage one another & walk this journey together.
So next time you have just a few minutes to spare, send a quick text or an email, leave a Voxer message, write a card, or send a little “thinking of you” gift. The time you spend to show love & encouragement isn’t limited to the minutes on a clock. The love & encouragement you show someone today may be the very thing God uses to speak life, healing, courage or hope to someone in need.
Take the time…
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1. jenniferlinck on March 12, 2014 at 7:23 AM I wrote a blog post very similar to this not that long ago. Every word you’ve written is so true. We all long for someone to reach out to us. It’s so great getting those surprise doses of love and encouragement. I’ve started making Mondays my “send a card” day. I mail a few cards to people who I know need prayer or an extra reminder that they are loved. Thanks for sharing today! Reply
- Satin Pon March 12, 2014 at 8:10 AM I love your idea for Mondays! 🙂 Thank you for stopping by!! Love to you! ♥ Reply
- Maria Marinoon March 12, 2014 at 11:00 AM Thought I’d take the time to thank you for affirming the gift of time. 😉 I always enjoy your posts and love the artwork you create, God bless you for taking the time to share your heart and His words Satin.Thank you!. Reply
- Satin Pon March 12, 2014 at 11:14 AM Maria, I always appreciate YOU, taking the time to read my posts & then comment. You’re so sweet & your encouragement is appreciated so very much! Blessings to you today! ♥♥ Reply
2. Lyli @ 3-D Lessons for Lifeon March 12, 2014 at 7:38 AM Great post! We are called to build each other up and spur one another along. It’s so important. A verse on this subject that I think about often is in Hebrews 3: “But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.” Reply
- Satin Pon March 12, 2014 at 8:11 AM Thank you for stopping by, Lyli! I love that verse as well! 🙂 Have a blessed day! ♥ Reply
3. Aleciaon March 12, 2014 at 7:48 AM “Take the Time”-absolutely! I’ve been convicted of this over the years, sometime I get so “busy” in my own life that I forget to really see other people and their problems. But God has reminded me time and time again how much someone else’s encouragement meant to me during difficult seasons and that I need to do the same for others. We just never know how much a smile or a simple “hello” will mean to someone. Reply
- Satin Pon March 12, 2014 at 8:16 AM As always, thank you for stopping by, Alecia! It’s always so wonderful to read your notes of encouragement. You are such a breath of fresh air to my day! 🙂 Have a blessed day yourself! ♥ Reply
4. Mary on March 12, 2014 at 9:44 AM Thank you so much for your gentle reminder that I so needed today. ♥ Reply 5. Steph Shackelford (@Be_Embraced)on March 12, 2014 at 10:10 AM Thanks so much for this reminder… how it important it is to take the time! Reply 6. Sharyn Wilbraham on March 12, 2014 at 7:17 PM Hi Satin:), I was so blessed reading this timely post. Do hope you get to read this. The Holy Spirit blessed and removed heaviness of soul through these words. Love the words “glue that holds us together” as others pray when we don’t know it. Excited to know God uses our prayers as His glue to bless and restore. May your life continue to be blessed, encouraged and enriched in every area. Blessings from Australia. Sharyn Reply 7. Barbie on March 12, 2014 at 11:04 PM Recently God has been asking me to encourage others by others means than just through writing. It’s stretching me, but it’s been good! Thank you for sharing! Reply
- Satin Pon March 13, 2014 at 7:58 AM Praying for you, Barbie! Sometimes He asks us to to think outside the box… and it’s scary & out of our comfort zone… but when we walk in obedience, He blesses ten fold! Praying for His blessings to be all yours today! Thank you for stopping by & for the faithful encouragement! ♥ Reply
8. Simply Bethon March 17, 2014 at 4:33 AM Well I just love this because I was on the receiving end of your encouragement through the card you sent and I can say for certain God used you to speak life, healing, courage and hope to me. Thank you so much!! And thank you for the reminder that we need to be this to each other.
Love you!! Wishing you a wonderful week.
Beth Reply
- Satin Pon March 18, 2014 at 9:22 AM So glad it made you smile! Love to you & praying God’s blessings & JOY for you this week! ♥ Reply
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jenniferlinck
March 12, 2014
I wrote a blog post very similar to this not that long ago. Every word you’ve written is so true. We all long for someone to reach out to us. It’s so great getting those surprise doses of love and encouragement. I’ve started making Mondays my “send a card” day. I mail a few cards to people who I know need prayer or an extra reminder that they are loved. Thanks for sharing today!
Satin P
March 12, 2014
I love your idea for Mondays! 🙂 Thank you for stopping by!! Love to you! ♥
Maria Marino
March 12, 2014
Thought I’d take the time to thank you for affirming the gift of time. 😉 I always enjoy your posts and love the artwork you create, God bless you for taking the time to share your heart and His words Satin.Thank you!.
Satin P
March 12, 2014
Maria, I always appreciate YOU, taking the time to read my posts & then comment. You’re so sweet & your encouragement is appreciated so very much! Blessings to you today! ♥♥
Lyli @ 3-D Lessons for Life
March 12, 2014
Great post! We are called to build each other up and spur one another along. It’s so important. A verse on this subject that I think about often is in Hebrews 3: “But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.”
Satin P
March 12, 2014
Thank you for stopping by, Lyli! I love that verse as well! 🙂 Have a blessed day! ♥
Alecia
March 12, 2014
“Take the Time”-absolutely! I’ve been convicted of this over the years, sometime I get so “busy” in my own life that I forget to really see other people and their problems. But God has reminded me time and time again how much someone else’s encouragement meant to me during difficult seasons and that I need to do the same for others. We just never know how much a smile or a simple “hello” will mean to someone.
Satin P
March 12, 2014
As always, thank you for stopping by, Alecia! It’s always so wonderful to read your notes of encouragement. You are such a breath of fresh air to my day! 🙂 Have a blessed day yourself! ♥
Mom
March 12, 2014
Thank you so much for your gentle reminder that I so needed today. ♥
Steph Shackelford (@Be_Embraced)
March 12, 2014
Thanks so much for this reminder… how it important it is to take the time!
Sharyn Wilbraham
March 12, 2014
Hi Satin:), I was so blessed reading this timely post. Do hope you get to read this. The Holy Spirit blessed and removed heaviness of soul through these words. Love the words “glue that holds us together” as others pray when we don’t know it. Excited to know God uses our prayers as His glue to bless and restore. May your life continue to be blessed, encouraged and enriched in every area. Blessings from Australia. Sharyn
Barbie
March 12, 2014
Recently God has been asking me to encourage others by others means than just through writing. It’s stretching me, but it’s been good! Thank you for sharing!
Satin P
March 13, 2014
Praying for you, Barbie! Sometimes He asks us to to think outside the box… and it’s scary & out of our comfort zone… but when we walk in obedience, He blesses ten fold! Praying for His blessings to be all yours today! Thank you for stopping by & for the faithful encouragement! ♥
Simply Beth
March 17, 2014
Well I just love this because I was on the receiving end of your encouragement through the card you sent and I can say for certain God used you to speak life, healing, courage and hope to me. Thank you so much!! And thank you for the reminder that we need to be this to each other. Love you!! Wishing you a wonderful week. Beth
Satin P
March 18, 2014
So glad it made you smile! Love to you & praying God’s blessings & JOY for you this week! ♥
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